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Engage Adolescents in Therapy

Engaging Adolescents



Teen Mental Health


Engaging adolescents in therapy can be challenging due to their unique developmental stage and the various emotional, social, and psychological changes they experience. However, effective engagement is crucial for successful therapeutic outcomes. Here are key strategies for effectively engaging adolescents in therapy.

1. Building a Strong Therapeutic Relationship

The foundation of effective therapy with adolescents lies in building a strong therapeutic relationship. Establishing trust and rapport is essential. Adolescents are more likely to engage in therapy if they feel understood and respected by their therapist.


  • Active Listening:

    Pay close attention to what the adolescent is saying without interrupting.

  • Empathy:

    Show genuine concern and understanding of their feelings and experiences.

  • Respect:

    Treat adolescents with respect, acknowledging their autonomy and perspective.

2. Utilising Developmentally Appropriate Techniques

Adolescents differ significantly from children and adults in their cognitive and emotional development. Therefore, therapists must use developmentally appropriate techniques tailored to this age group.


  • Interactive Methods:

    Use role-playing, games, and creative activities to make sessions more engaging.

  • Technology Integration:

    Incorporate digital tools and platforms that adolescents are comfortable with.

  • Relatable Language:

    Communicate using language that is relatable and understandable to adolescents.

3. Addressing Resistance and Ambivalence

Resistance and ambivalence are common in adolescent therapy. Adolescents may be hesitant to open up or may feel coerced into attending sessions. Addressing these feelings directly and empathetically is important.


  • Motivational Interviewing:

    Use techniques to explore and resolve ambivalence, enhancing the adolescent’s intrinsic motivation to change.

  • Collaborative Goal Setting:

    Involve adolescents in setting their own therapeutic goals, giving them a sense of control and ownership.

  • Normalise Resistance:

    Acknowledge and normalise resistance as a part of the therapeutic process.

4. Creating a Safe and Inclusive Environment

A safe and inclusive environment is critical for adolescents to feel comfortable and willing to engage in therapy. Creating a non-judgemental space where adolescents feel safe to express themselves is essential.


  • Confidentiality:

    Assure adolescents of the confidentiality of their sessions, within legal limits.

  • Non-Judgemental Attitude:

    Maintain a non-judgemental attitude towards the adolescent’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.

  • Physical Environment:

    Create a welcoming and comfortable physical space that reflects the adolescent’s interests and preferences.

5. Engaging Families in the Therapeutic Process

Involving families can enhance the effectiveness of therapy with adolescents. The presence of supportive family members can reinforce therapeutic interventions and provide a support system for the adolescent.


  • Family Sessions:

    Include family sessions to improve communication and address family dynamics.

  • Parental Involvement:

    Educate and involve parents in the therapeutic process, providing them with strategies to support their adolescent.

  • Family-Based Interventions:

    Utilise family-based therapeutic interventions that address the needs of the entire family unit.

Effectively engaging adolescents in therapy requires a combination of building strong relationships, using developmentally appropriate techniques, addressing resistance, creating a safe environment, and involving families. By implementing these strategies, therapists can enhance their ability to connect with adolescents and facilitate meaningful therapeutic progress.

To learn more effective communication strategies for conversations with teens enrol now in Engaging Adolescents™ for Child and Family Specialists CLICK HERE TO REGISTER


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